"His Pheromone "

Body odor is really a big thing ... for me.
Especially for my man ... he gotta smell nice.
And I'm not talking about a bunch of perfume sprayed all over ...
I'm talking about the mix of scents that the body produces with the perfume, deodorant, or any kind of artificial scent used.

I believe I'm not the only woman who experience this.
Tracing back ... I remember that I always go crazy with my lover's smell.
It's gotta be the smell, on the body, on the clothes, on the air when he stands close to me.

I recalled one guy who was really cute and head over heel for me, but I was never attracted to him.
No matter how hard he tried ... My friend called me a fool, but I just couldn't understand at that time, why I didn't even show the slightest interest to him. His smell was okay, but not good enough to induce me.

One time I read across an article about Pheromone and How It Affects on Human. I heard about the word pheromone thousand times ... but never really know what it is exactly. It was on Marie Claire, I don't remember what edition. It just explains mostly the mistery of my attraction or craziness toward smell.

What about when he's all sweaty? Does it still have the same seducing effect?? Well maybe .. but mostly no.
Cleanness is one major attribute to attraction. Stickiness really doesn't count, right girls? *wink *

I go crazy on my hubby's smell ... The smell of his neck, the smell of his old t-shirt ... the smell of the pillow that he sleeps on. The blend of his natural body scent and his perfume... mmmm ... it just makes me high, I'll be like .. aahhhhhh ...

So guys, ... go clean up yourself and ask your girls what kinda smell she likes on you. It doesn't always have to be an expensive perfume .. It just have to be the right scent! The most important thing is that, one scent could be the sexiest thing to girl A, but the other way around for girl B. The pheromone effect differs from one person to another. Well, you just have to find out the perfect ingredients.

Don't believe it?? Try it yourself.

"Males"

Akhir2 ini kerasa aneh, keinginan untuk update blog ini ada ... banyak yang protes kenapa aku sekarang hampir nggak pernah nulis lagi. Bisa sebulan sekali malah. Terkadang nulis sedikit, stop ... bosan ... nggak bisa nerusin lagi. Tiba-tiba aja aku berpikir, mungkin nasib postingan kali ini bakal sama seperti rekan-rekan terdahulunya. ha .. ha .. ha .. ya apa boleh buat kalo gitu. Atau kalau nggak bosan di tengah jalan gini, .. sering saat off computer, di pikiranku muncul ide tertentu, tapi begitu i sat my butt down dan mulai buka blogger ... everything's gone out of my head. Apakah semua proses inspirasiku itu menguap begitu aja jadi salah satu korban sel otak yang mati percuma. Intinya menurutku .. aku nggak bisa konsen, nggak bisa fokus. Mungkin emang ada masa jenuh .. dan ini saatnya kali.

"Looking for Perfection"

I wonder what is the limit of perfection in finding someone special ... I suppose it will vary between one to another, but the search itself remains the same. How do we fall in love at the first place? Perfect now or perfect later?

Nobody's perfect ... Yeah, we heard that a million times before.
But the question is ... Do we really realize that nobody's perfect?
If then, why do we still demand somebody else's to fit in our image?
Thus creates anger, heart break, and disappointment ...

The thing is .. there is a time frame when you think someone's perfect.
Afterwards, all you see is flaw. This is when the brain really starts to work. HAH!
Before, ... we were blinded by heart and nothing seemed to matter.
We need them both, heart and brain, to realize that LOVE is a cross of perfection and flaw.