"Too comfortable"

I have this question in mind .. Is love become too comfortable that you don't care about it anymore? It usually happens in a perfect, nice smoothing relationship. The boat is start sailing from the port and the breeze just sort of blowing calmly, pushing it to the middle of the sea ... you got carried away .. enjoying the sun, and wake up .. voila .. u r in the middle of nowhere. Is it true that you need drama in your love life? Something that sparks excitement and challenge?

For all factors, the key element in developing a successfull relationship is communication. Communication according to Webster Dictionary :

"a process by which information is exchanged between individuals through a common system of symbols, signs, or behavior"

Apparently in developing a love relationship, it is subjected to communication as well. It raised a question whether communication is as important as love. A lot of people don't know how to communicate well and it is not really an easy task to do even when you think you are educated. There's no such school as Master of Love Communication, and even if there is, it is far more complicated to get practical in unique situation.

It's quite intriguing that according to Webster, the exchange is done through symbol, signs or behavior!! Meaning that communication is not limited to spoken words only, even behavior can relate to be a form of communication. Oh boy, why I have to make it so complicated?? Is it me or is it him? But whatever it was, I did the right thing for me. And I have to realize that my bf is not so much of a chatter and I try to understand him, and maybe .. just maybe .. I should give him a slap on the face really hard and tell him that relationship is not built overnight and needs both sides to work things out. And I should bang my head really hard to reality and come back from "the comfort island" to be who I was, to rely on myself.

** Never be too comfortable in any situation **

Now I feel better ....